For people who think it's cool to break someone's trust, I have no other option but to call them an artifice . Not only me but the whole world would agree. And for people who think it's their goodness to trust on everyone, I would be compelled to call them fools again as gone are those days of the past where people were well aware of what it was. From the most minute things to the greatest of all, I believe, trust, was one of those elements which kept a country United. Today, loss of that has created a situation where people still are in a dilemma of whom to trust and whom not to. So much so that girl children today fear to trust their fathers, uncles and other male 'relatives' of their family.
Human beings, or rather Homo sapiens( it's scientific term) can be well differentiated from a mere robot by the fact that humans understand emotions. I am afraid that humans these days don't do that and neither do they devote all their time to make them a perfectionist like any other robot. Well then, what should we call them, BEASTS? I'm still afraid, that the word might feel insulted by its very usage to define such living organisms. Where a grown up girl child cannot trust her male relatives because they are unable to control their temptations, 'beasts' is definitely not the appropriate word and I don't really have any word to describe them. Where teachers break trusts of their students, demoralise them and only a very few rise above the fool's multitude to support, encourage and guide us, how do we pay tribute to our so called 'gurus' ? How do we blindly trust them and put a step forward by just holding their hand, knowing that they will never let us stumble? Hard, isn't it?
Where 'friends' has now become just a term, that is used to describe the same aged teens who share the same class and curriculum with me! Hardly do we find peers to whom we can confide our secrets to and not leak them out! How trustworthy were friends then when I hear stories from my dad that vividly show how a whole class would rise up to support their peer if he was in trouble. And when I compare it with this very term now, I fear that I am learning the langugage in an improper way and repeatedly turn the pages of the dictionary to verify whether I am wrong or not. Someone had rightly said, "Golden were those days, which are gone now".
Protectors have become destructors today. Police officers feel no shame to charge someone based on stupid reasons and it hurts me when I see that people have lost faith on these men and simply hold out a 500 rupee note to indirectly tell them " stop shouting crap please" !
Where people whom you hate have become a regular part of your life and go on hitting you which they find cool! They really do not understand how much are they losing on their image in front of the person in the process of upholding their undeserved dignity.
WHAT DO WE TRUST ON THEN? THE TREES, FLOWERS, ROADS, MOUNTAINS, SUN AND DUST?
Life is never complicated if you do not trust on people, who make an effort to throw hurdles at you. It becomes a lot easier when you trust in just one person, you. Trust in yourself. The long dusty road will seem to get clear, each day.
Bhalo likhechish Ankita...some points were put out viividly..But,etao toh thik,,some things in life are based ONLY and ONLY on "trust..." True,that you have no guarrantee or warranty to certify its tenure, yet you can't help but do so. For eg: Imagine a husband who never trusts his wife ,would that bond ever sustain? .So,its just that DONT TRUST BLINDLY..rather than "dont trust anyone".. and for a sensible mind, it'll always knock you at those moments where you're in with a chance of seeing this sweet word get shattered. At times,the bell rings loud enugh for us to careful,while other sounds(most of them are feeble ones),..so feelbe that they in turn make US feeble to ourselves. ..But again,these come as a chain in the learning process,you'll be cheated,and that'll teach you WHOM to trust,WHOM NOT TO.... But refraining oneself completely from the word TRUST can lead us in situations where not just we,but even our belief seems baffled....Nothing is in your hand,you can work,learn ... the rest lies in the Hands of the Creator... Life e shobar jonno same calculations ..karo loss aage,gain pore...karo onno sheta reversed..but shobai k same effects face korte hoi,IF NOT same circumstances... BUt I liked the way you stressed on SELF BELIEF--that indeed,is MORE than anything else ...
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